tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post5388481737730054162..comments2023-09-24T23:56:49.214+08:00Comments on The McVie Show, Season Thirteen: Un. Re. QUIT. Ed.joelmcviehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18271791181683397711noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post-58155354599264404632008-01-27T23:05:00.000+08:002008-01-27T23:05:00.000+08:00@SEVEN: The difficulty is in the whole uncertainty...@SEVEN: The difficulty is in the whole uncertainty surrounding the two of you. You've received rumors and mixed signals about him. What you may not realize is that others--including him--may have heard rumors and are getting mixed signals from you.<BR/><BR/>The most direct way to cut through all that uncertainty crap is to ask him--in private, of course. But I doubt if you or most anybody in the same boat as you will actually have the courage or the wits to ask. <BR/><BR/>In the past it took me years before I could tell my crushes how I felt. But I eventually did. Now that I'm older I tell them as soon as I'm sure I feel something towards them.joelmcviehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18271791181683397711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post-33182131219781292572008-01-27T22:36:00.000+08:002008-01-27T22:36:00.000+08:00Wow, looks like they've been going to you for advi...Wow, looks like they've been going to you for advice, so maybe I'll take the opportunity, too. Haha. Right now, I think I like this guy a few years older than me, but I don't know if he's gay. I've heared some rumors, but I don't really know, and he's been sending pretty mixed signals.<BR/><BR/>And no, I'm not out. Haha. What do you think?<BR/><BR/>SevenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post-83119460063005831002008-01-24T02:30:00.000+08:002008-01-24T02:30:00.000+08:00Dear Fern,Please do talk to someone else about it,...Dear Fern,<BR/><BR/>Please do talk to someone else about it, NOT JUST HIM. You need to snap out of it, and the sooner the better. Here's a cautionary tale to help you get over it: <I>Would you want to be like me, who wasted his time and youth pining for a love (or more) that is a lost cause? Don't wake up one day to find out that you could have had more options had you started when you were <B>younger</B></I>.joelmcviehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18271791181683397711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post-849291077151677952008-01-24T00:09:00.000+08:002008-01-24T00:09:00.000+08:00Hi Joel,I wish I had the courage to introduce myse...Hi Joel,<BR/><BR/>I wish I had the courage to introduce myself, but I'm afraid I must remain anonymous. <BR/><BR/>Your last post definitely hit a chord too.<BR/><BR/>I've been in exactly the same position (literally and figuratively) many times. And alas, I guess I'm still young enough to continue pining about being so near and yet so far. He knows how I feel, but he is the only one who knows. And whenever I am hurt by wishing and hoping, I run to him, and he listens.<BR/><BR/>It's a vicious cycle which I've become addicted to, and while I claim that it doesn't affect me much, many times, it still does.<BR/><BR/>I don't expect any miracles to happen soon. I just hope I get over my addiction to the lingering smell of his shampoo, and to the odd sensation of waking up with him in my arms, so near, yet so far...<BR/><BR/>I just hope it doesn't get to the point where he has to kick me out of his bed and out of his life because I've crossed the line. Ha ha ha.<BR/><BR/><BR/>FernAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post-21874933656211967982008-01-22T23:20:00.000+08:002008-01-22T23:20:00.000+08:00@FRANCIS: Here's some merthiolate or mercurochrome...@FRANCIS: Here's some merthiolate or mercurochrome. Now put it where it hurts. Yes, drink it all up so that it reaches your heart. =)<BR/><BR/>My dear, the earlier you snap out of it, the better for everyone. =)joelmcviehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18271791181683397711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post-73830533466584779692008-01-22T23:11:00.000+08:002008-01-22T23:11:00.000+08:00hahaha. eouch! i was reading your posts and commen...hahaha. eouch! i was reading your posts and comments with mixed amusement and pangs of.. ouch! the second miracle you talk about applies to me. difference is the guy already is gay but just sees friendship nothing more between us. he just got attached.<BR/><BR/>channelling julia roberts right now...<BR/><BR/><BR/>francisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post-20719173403946911812008-01-22T17:27:00.000+08:002008-01-22T17:27:00.000+08:00@HOMIE: Actually I was lucky enough to have been o...@HOMIE: Actually I was lucky enough to have been older when that happened. Because had I been younger, I would have leaned over and kissed him on the cheek. And had I been younger, I'd pine for days after about being "so near and yet so far" and wishing against hope that he'll turn gay and love me in return.<BR/><BR/>I mean, imagine that? We're asking two MAJOR miracles to occur: [1] that a guy changes sexual orientation overnight; [2] that same guy will desire your whole being.<BR/><BR/><I>Kahibangan</I>, right? =)joelmcviehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18271791181683397711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post-46890361305571278292008-01-22T15:28:00.000+08:002008-01-22T15:28:00.000+08:00Hi Joel - just wanted to thank you for the post. K...Hi Joel - just wanted to thank you for the post. Kind of hit me where I am at right now - I know attraction can't be helped but I wish there was some way by which you can actually tweak the hypothalamus so the attraction won't graduate to something less than attractive (like slobbering admissions - he he).. Anyways, just visited Mandaya and grrll posted something na may "connect" sa posting mo... I feel like I am being chased by the Erinyes right now..<BR/><BR/>Best regards - HomieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com