tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post5837525632755644679..comments2023-09-24T23:56:49.214+08:00Comments on The McVie Show, Season Thirteen: Surviving Lonely, Series 1: “Beauty And The Bell Curve”joelmcviehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18271791181683397711noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post-77528478665887830642008-12-15T16:23:00.000+08:002008-12-15T16:23:00.000+08:00in social settings, i think the best thing to do i...in social settings, i think the best thing to do is just accept that you'll lose so all the tension is gone and then, go for the jostling part.<BR/><BR/>the tension kicks in lang naman when there are expectations. then again, the danger is when you do lose the attraction and tension and itsuddenly becoes available to you--would you still have something that you no longer want?ManilaRaunchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06952544048894248486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post-91323815845370009482008-12-15T15:00:00.000+08:002008-12-15T15:00:00.000+08:00@MRAUNCH: Your mental fight mode actually works we...@MRAUNCH: Your mental fight mode actually works well for the bathhouse and other for-sex-only hunts. But in the more social settings (versus the purely sexual ones), then personality and more come into play.joelmcviehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18271791181683397711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post-41451719187697728592008-12-15T14:41:00.000+08:002008-12-15T14:41:00.000+08:00isn't there a john nash theory on this?in my wilde...isn't there a john nash theory on this?<BR/><BR/>in my wilder days, i had this mental fight mode that i used a lot. in my mind, i made everyone just physical beings and didnt think about who they were--the judgement was simply: would he be a hot lay or not, no thoughts on his personality--so that if rejection comes along, then i could easily move on to other hunts.ManilaRaunchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06952544048894248486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post-36290225698383977532008-12-15T10:15:00.000+08:002008-12-15T10:15:00.000+08:00I like this entry. :) Thanks for sharing it.I like this entry. :) Thanks for sharing it.~Carrie~https://www.blogger.com/profile/16047889822200953886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3202881605114576417.post-31094978006344459582008-12-14T18:22:00.000+08:002008-12-14T18:22:00.000+08:00Woot!! Beri impormatib!! Hehehe.If I feel that t...Woot!! Beri impormatib!! Hehehe.<BR/><BR/>If I feel that the target is more superior to me, I'd take flight or put myself down so I won't be able to put up a fight. <BR/><BR/>In most cases, I'd rather put up a defense rather than let someone scratch my pride. If I like somebody, who likes me back - I'd still let him call the first shots.<BR/><BR/>If the coast is already clear, and the target, already reloading his ammunition, there and then I'd show up, brandishing all the weapons of love or lust that I got..https://www.blogger.com/profile/12914651755857714903noreply@blogger.com