Sacha Guitry once said, "You can pretend to be serious, but you can't pretend to be witty." Oh yes, I'm the great pretender.
(pilot episode: 20 January 2004)
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
The Gray Fabcast, Part 2
Sorry for the uber-delay. In this second and last part, we talk to a couple in a situationship: Jojo and Jay (the fratman!). Plus we hear the young voices from the peanut gallery.
From McVie: "Know yourself." It's our choice if we'd want to stay in ambiguity and move on to more defined levels in a relationship. Or there's the option to remain clueless and unenlightened.
From Mgg: Be sensitive. I like this statement. Gray areas, just because they're gray, doesn't mean they have to be taken lightly. These are transitions to clearer things or venues to get out of the situation.
From CC: Go for black and white. Di rin maglalaon, one or both of you would want to take a step further.
From Tony: The motive is driven by selfishness. I concur to this. Sometimes not knowing what you really want also makes the gray areas in situations. And most of the time two people are not on the same page, like one is into the other, but the other isn't.
comment ko specifically dun sa mag-syotang iilang araw pa lamang... don't even attempt to define what you guys have. let it be as is... in the realm of feeling good with each other. it won't last anyway, with the other party not staying. just enjoy the feeling, the emotion and don't put too much thought into it. you'll realize, in the end, it will be just a waste of time being cerebral about it by putting definitions when you can just spend the most with what little time you have enjoying each other - physically and emotionally.
just feel. don't think. don't even attempt to define. anyway, it won't last.
Wow, Carrie, you are paying attention. Thank you. It feels good to know that we are able to connect with you through our fun fabcasts. Very encouraging! Salamat!
Thanks, Migs. I'm a silent follower of your site, and I wish you continue to be the Manila Gay guy, even during your maternity leave, este, spiritual endeavor.
5 comments:
naging (sort of) sila!?!!!! maygay! ang bilis hahaha
A lot to learn from this fabcast:
From McVie: "Know yourself." It's our choice if we'd want to stay in ambiguity and move on to more defined levels in a relationship. Or there's the option to remain clueless and unenlightened.
From Mgg: Be sensitive. I like this statement. Gray areas, just because they're gray, doesn't mean they have to be taken lightly. These are transitions to clearer things or venues to get out of the situation.
From CC: Go for black and white. Di rin maglalaon, one or both of you would want to take a step further.
From Tony: The motive is driven by selfishness. I concur to this. Sometimes not knowing what you really want also makes the gray areas in situations. And most of the time two people are not on the same page, like one is into the other, but the other isn't.
comment ko specifically dun sa mag-syotang iilang araw pa lamang... don't even attempt to define what you guys have. let it be as is... in the realm of feeling good with each other. it won't last anyway, with the other party not staying. just enjoy the feeling, the emotion and don't put too much thought into it. you'll realize, in the end, it will be just a waste of time being cerebral about it by putting definitions when you can just spend the most with what little time you have enjoying each other - physically and emotionally.
just feel. don't think. don't even attempt to define. anyway, it won't last.
Wow, Carrie, you are paying attention. Thank you. It feels good to know that we are able to connect with you through our fun fabcasts. Very encouraging! Salamat!
Thanks, Migs. I'm a silent follower of your site, and I wish you continue to be the Manila Gay guy, even during your maternity leave, este, spiritual endeavor.
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